
Baby on the Way: Preparing Financially for Parenthood in the Military
Apr 17, 2025 | 6 min. read
For millions of young Americans, joining the military is a life-changing experience. This unique rite of passage is the chance to build lifelong skills, develop a rewarding career, forge powerful bonds of camaraderie and ultimately serve our country.
As with any milestone, joining the military comes with a host of financial considerations. Understanding all the options and how to best approach them can ensure a smooth transition into military life and lay the groundwork for future financial health.
At First Command, we’ve been helping America’s service members pursue financial security for over 60 years. In fact, 3 out of 4 of our Advisors are veterans or military spouses who know exactly what it’s like to become an active duty member of the military community. That’s why we’ve put together this resource guide with suggestions, links, financial considerations and more.
All paychecks are processed by direct deposit, regardless of your service branch. This means it’s important to find a military friendly bank and set up an account to handle direct deposits. For more information, visit DFAS, the Defense Finance and Account Service.
myPay is the Department of Defense's online payroll and accounting system. All members of the military use myPay to manage their pay. The system is entirely online and available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
myPay’s range of features include the ability to:
To learn more, visit the myPay website.
Every member of the U.S. military receives the same level of base pay according to rank and years of service. Pay is subject to:
There are a few exceptions, such as service in a tax-free combat zone. Additionally, some states won’t tax military pay, depending on the amount of time the service member is stationed there.
The government provides allowances for food, shelter and clothing. As with any allowance, overages are the responsibility of the individual.
While the military does provide some basic protection and insurance for individuals living in government-owned base housing, you may be surprised to learn that there are definite limits on how much that insurance will cover.
When investigating military renter’s insurance, look for the following:
The two most common types of life insurance are:
Service members are eligible for generous low-cost term life insurance under Servicemembers’ Group Life Insurance (SGLI). New military members usually qualify for SGLI coverage as long as they are classified as one of the following:
With SGLI, servicemembers are entitled to:
Service members are automatically enrolled in SGLI at full coverage, but changes can be made to SGLI coverage at any time. In most cases, the low cost of SGLI makes keeping and paying for the full $500,000 a smart financial decision – even if it’s more coverage than currently needed.
It’s important to note that while SGLI is robust and affordable, a term policy is not permanent insurance. Purchasing a base amount of permanent insurance when you are young and in good health may allow you to lock in a reasonable rate for life. SGLI coverage ends when you separate from service, making the early career stage an ideal time to consider permanent life insurance that can eventually help replace your SGLI.
When joining the military, saving for the future may not be top of mind. Building good financial habits early on, however, can help young adults avoid costly mistakes and set the stage for long-term financial health. In addition, the military benefits package offers unique savings opportunities, so we recommend taking advantage of those from the very beginning.
The Blended Retirement System (BRS) is the military retirement system which includes two components: A guaranteed lifelong pension for those who serve 20 years or more, and the opportunity to save, invest and receive government matching contributions through the Thrift Savings Plan. For those who transition from the military prior to 20 years of service, the BRS ensures that you can leave the military with retirement savings similar to those you might accrue in the private sector.
The Thrift Savings Plan (TSP) is a retirement savings and investment plan available to all members of the U.S. Armed Forces. It is designed to offer savings and tax benefits similar to those that corporations offer their employees under 401(k) plans. The TSP is known as a “defined contribution plan,” meaning that participants contribute designated amounts to the plan through payroll deductions. Participation in the Thrift Savings Plan is an excellent opportunity to build wealth over time.
It’s especially important for service members in the Blended Retirement System (BRS) to take advantage of the TSP, since this program constitutes a significant portion of their retirement benefit.
For all the uncertainty associated with life in the military, unexpected expenses – and the financial instability that comes with them – may actually be less likely. Historically, job security in the military is greater and the comprehensive coverage provided to service members protects them from unexpected bills.
However, life is unpredictable, and building an emergency savings fund is an essential first step toward financial wellness. With a financial cushion set aside, you’ll be less likely to incur credit card debt or tap investments intended for long-term goals when the need arises.
At First Command we’ve spent over 60 years helping military parents help their new service members get financially squared away. We offer complimentary financial plans for active duty military, and there is no minimum net worth required to work with us. To speak with a Financial Advisor near you, visit our Get Started page.